Make yourself happy

 


Never make your partner the cause of your happiness.

Make yourself happy in your own way. Have an easy-going relationship with your partner. He is there for you, you don't need to panic every moment. It's a relationship of respect, trust, and being there for each other during life's hassles. It's not a relation of panic. Whenever you hand over your happiness to another person, you become vulnerable. That's why you can't take it when the behavior of your partner changes after a few years. That's why you become suicidal when he leaves you or dies or does something that he shouldn't have done. If we were the cause of our happiness, we would have been much more secure. The rate of divorce would have dropped. The number of suicides due to relationship issues would have come down significantly. Take your partner as a gift, blessing, and friend. But nothing more than that. He is not the cause or source of your happiness. Be happy with yourself. Have a purpose for living. Study like hell. Have a brilliant career. Have good friends. Play FIFA 2023. Eat good food. And just know that you have someone beside you at the end of a tiring day. That's enough my friend, that's enough.
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When a woman realizes that his partner would never leave him no matter what, she often starts to treat him bad. Love your woman & Protect her from all evil but never give her that feeling that you will be there no matter what. Men commonly make this mistake early in their relationships & often lifelong. Constant negligence and bad behavior should not be tolerated.
by dr kusal


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