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  Taj Mahal Taj Mahal © Ron Gatepain In 1631 Mumtaz Mahal, the third and favorite wife of the Mughal emperor Shah Jahan (reigned 1628–58), died while giving birth to the couple’s fourteenth child. Devastated, the emperor commissioned the Taj Mahal, a massive mausoleum complex on the southern bank of the Yamuna (Jumna) River that ultimately took more than 20 years to complete. Today the Taj Mahal is the most famous piece of Islamic architecture in the world, with the possible exception of the Dome of the Rock in Jerusalem. The monument is remarkable both for its size (the finial of the dome of the central mausoleum stands 240 feet [73 meters] above ground level) and for its graceful form, which combines elements of Indian, Islamic, and Persian design. From afar, viewers are dazzled by the white marble of the central tomb, which appears to change color with daylight. Up close, the building is richly decorated with Arabic calligraphy and inlays of semiprecious stones. Inside there are...

  spiritual reminder : "If you don't philosophize somebody else will philosophize for you. It's as simple as that. In other words, if you don't think deeply about the human condition, you will end up absorbing the opinions and the attitudes of people that have, and you won't have the discrimination to know what's good and what's apparently good, or what's beneficial & what's harmful" - Hamza Yusuf You are not enough. I am not enough. We are not enough. Only God is enough. Give your time and energy to the people who like you. Ignore the ones who hate. Often, we do the opposite. We fail to recognize the bulk of people who like us but get triggered by the 2-3 who hate us. Life is too short to waste your time on the people who hate you. Human beings often live miserable life as they fail to value the people in life who love them. They spend their whole life thinking about a few people who have hurt, wrongly criticized, or given them ...

  I sincerely request couples to be nice and soft in a husband wife relationship. Respect your partner's emotions, choices and modesty. Don't try to replicate what you see in porn. Your wife or husband is not a pornstar. I commonly see men and women who don't like oral sex but they are forced to do it by their partner. A lot end up vomiting every night and still their partners doesn't feel for them ! There are lot of women who feel extreme pain in anal sex but their husbands force them to do it. Have we become monsters ? How can we treat our wife like this ? Would you like a man to treat your daughter like this ? I'll say the same to women. A lot of women are also vulgar which is difficult to accomodate for modest men. Too much porn and too much bad friends are making us perverts & devils. A person who doesn't have a brain and a heart but only sex organs is very dangerous. COLLECTED

  A request to religious-minded people : ............................................................. We can't hurt a homosexual/bisexual/transgender/anyone PERSONALLY just because he/she does not match our values. Do we do the same with the one who cheats? Do we do the same with a constant backbiter? Do we do the same with big thieves and robbers? Some of us even prostate big thieves and robbers . ............................................. If you believe something is harmful to human beings or this society or if you believe liberal politics is inappropriate, then try to make blogs and vlogs and let others know about it. you can do your own campaign against it. and you can appeal to governmental bodies. But plz don't hurt an individual. The two are very different. That boy you hurt could have been your son/daughter/sister/brother. In the world we live in, we all have family members with different value systems. Some are religious and a few will be liberal, ...

  Question : Is it a mental illness for a woman not to want babies? Answer : No, it's not a mental illness, it's a choice. It's nothing bad or good. Everyone can choose what he/she wants in his/her life. a Woman can decide to have no kids, and a woman may also decide to have 10 kids. Both are ok and we should stop judging her because of her choices. But there is a difference between a personal choice and advising it for others. Suppose, It's ok if 20% of women in our society decide that they won't have children. But if the 20% start influencing others, we'll end up in a world where 80% of women will decide not to have children. That to me, from a social psychology perspective, is very dangerous for all of us. So, I personally would suggest respecting everyone's choices but being very careful to preach your personal preferences at a social level. Not everything that we chose personally is always helpful collectively. ## Two additional poin...

  Always being compassionate towards everyone is one of the most unhelpful things we teach to our children. Yes, being kind should be the first and second option. But not the third. If you repeatedly allow badly socialized people to bully you, they will tear you apart and leave you broken. Sometimes we need to stand on our own feet. We need to be assertive with a few sons of a bitch we meet & give them what they deserve. Don't confuse harmlessness with morality. You are harmless because you are just not capable enough to protest. You are shy and a coward. That's not helpful for you. Don't always be soft and kind. Don't build the habit of being weak and miserable and allow a lot of people to bully you constantly. Be kind to most of the people you meet in life but also have the guts to f*k a few of them if needed.

  People make mistakes. Even good people do. In fact, most of the good people in this world make mistakes he/she or the people who love him/her would never imagine. ......................................... Don't judge them when they do so. Because most of them are sorry for that. Most of them have deep-seated guilt for the wrong they have done in their life. Most of them will refrain from it and won't do it again. ........................................ But they need our help. They need to heal. They need time. They need our trust. Our forgiveness. They need our shoulders to cry on. They don't like the person they have become. They want to change. ............................................. Never judge a person dear to you by only one mistake or one wrong he/she has done in life. Even if he/she has killed someone. Assess him by the person he has been for the last 10/20/30 yrs. Good people make a mistake but only criminals make repeated and consta...

  Don't use social media if you are not enough matured to take other people's happiness/success/ love stories. While a lot of them are fake, a few of them might be true. ....................... I know at least 500 couples who post very cute pictures on social media but don't have any compatibility in their lives. They regularly fight and bully each other but whenever the camera is on - they smile beautifully. I appreciate their effort though otherwise social Media would have been a very depressing place. I love to see couples enjoying themselves and having happy faces. I try to assume that they are happy while my clinical experience says they are often not. .......................... If you are struggling with your mental health - just deactivate every social media account for 7 days and closely observe what happens. If you feel better much better, then don't be back again. We all like to be different in current times. Not using social media will make you ve...

  A lot of you guys don't improve in life because you are not ashamed of your current chaotic and messed up life. Or, you don't feel enough guilt for some of your horrible wrong actions. Some of you lack conscience ...................................... You might be a miserable little worm, but then you go to a mental health professional & he tells you - "Accept the person who you are" "You are enough" "It's ok to be like this" Well, are sure about that? You go to bed 3 at night, you watch social media 4 hours daily, and you think you should accept the person you are? You are in a relationship with an abusive boyfriend and you think that it is ok to be like this? You watch porn and you are a bully - and you think you are enough? Really? ............................ An important thing mental health professionals should do but often don't is they should try to install the appropriate amount of guilt and shame to their clie...

  Two videos: 1st : Having patience in a relationship and trying to understand each other and not impulsively going for divorce: 10k views 2nd : Why you should break up when your spouse abuses you? : 500k views Clearly shows the mindset of most of our young generation. A generation growing up glorifying having a career but not having a family. They will alhamdulillah have money and a career but a lot of them will end up being lonely, depressed, gadget-addicted, porn addicted, nihilistic, narcissistic, anti-social, suicidal, and perhaps homicidal. May God give our children brains to understand the intellectual hypocrisy the world is offering them. May God bless their young & immature souls. Children, please follow the right people in life. Don't make a son of a bitch your idol. Don't follow people who corrupt your soul and make you a fool on social media. Evil is evil even if he/she has 50 million followers. "Trust your gut and nobody else" We often ge...

  Morocco's soccer team didn’t just win a game against Portugal in FIFA world cup football 2022, it won the hearts of millions of people around the world. It especially won the hearts of the people in the Muslim and Arab world, and what a well-deserved win it was. While the “victory” and the historical achievement of this team in the Qatar World Cup was hailed worldwide for being the first-ever African/Arab/Muslim team to reach the semifinals, many others celebrated this team for other reasons. As for me, here are my reasons why the Moroccan team won the world already: 1- The underdog story They are different and they brought a breath of fresh air to the World Cup. For some reason, people love the underdog story, and this one is no different. With a united group of humble, individual players and a team manager who took over shortly before the start of the World Cup, the Moroccan team stormed the stadiums and shocked the world with their back-to-back wins. I had to look up the...